Wednesday, September 16, 2009

NSR...Good Day and Bad Day

Ugh...need to vent. Ignore this post since it is just me complaining...need to consolidate my thoughts before another day of "fun".
  • Took C to her first ballet lesson. Tell me I am not the only mother in the parking lot stitching elastics into her leather ballet slippers at the last minute...I just can't be!
  • While C was dancing (no mommies allowed), I went with Ave and cashed in my gift card I got for my birthday. I got Basic Grey's Indian Summer, Eskimo Kisses and Eerie plus some coordinating chipboard, stickers and favor boxes. I finally got my alcohol ink applicator and topped it all with a Jolly-by-Golly crafting kit (loves it).
  • Took the girls home so A could have her second nap of the day which was 20 minutes...again. Ugh...she is such a nightmare by the end of the day with so little sleep.
  • When T got home from school, I noticed his backpack had lost the zipper pull. Compound that with the insides falling out and some missing teeth from said zipper and I decided it was time to go get a new one. Plus, I thought I could keep Ave from driving me off the deep end with her persistent whining.

    Anyhoo, get there, get all three into the cart (since the older two said they were too tired to walk), and after a tussle between the older two (while I was getting my purse and canvas bags out of the car), the whole cart tipped over on its side. Fortunately Ave was strapped into her seat and didn't go anywhere but she was scared big time. After scolding the other two and putting them back into the car, I consoled Avery for the next 20 minutes (no lie) since she could just not calm down. I kept checking for bruises or something thinking she must be hurt but no, she was just freaked out.

    I know all about the safety rules with carts (i.e., that the kids aren't supposed to be in the buggy part) but jeebus, could I catch a break with kids who tell me that can't possibly bring themselves to put one foot in front of the other? I did go into the Wal-Mart 1/2 hour later with kids who couldn't be more conciliatory for fear that angry mommy resurfaced again. I was not about to let an opportunity to get an errand done pass me by...
  • Dinner was mostly fine (save that a lot of it ended up on the floor in the form of crumbs). After dinner, T ran to the bathroom (he had been playing) and peed all over himself, the floor and the seat (he always waits too long!). I, of course, did not find this out until, yes, you guessed it, I plunked myself down on the seat. Argh!
  • Finally got them to bed at 8:30 (Ave went at seven). Ave had a bottle at nine, and then woke up again at ten. At that time, she was absolutely inconsolable but I decided she had to sleep. After going in and seeing her every five to ten minutes, she ended up crying for 70 minutes straight before giving up (ugh...my nerves!). I tiptoed up to see her, and there she is playing with her feet and talking to herself...I thought "She's mocking me!". About ten minutes later, she was finally out for the count. (She did get up at three and five and then up for the day at 6:30 AM...she's killing me!).
  • C was crying in the middle of the night that she was lonely in her bed. So, in my stupor, I laid down with her (something I wouldn't have done had I been at all cognizant). When awoken at three with Ave, I realized I couldn't move my head to the right (and still can't!). That is what I get for trying to sleep in a twin bed with a squirmy girl!
Okay, bad karma gone...off to face another day. If you made it this far, thanks for listening...

17 comments:

Susie said...

That's all pretty rough, especially when you're still working on top of it. I do hope today is better and I hope there is someone that can take the kids while you have some time to yourself. I know you love your kids and are an awesome Mom but everyone needs some "Me" time. Too bad I don't live close by. Sending hugs.

Anita C said...

Aaawww I feel for you honey! Avery seems to be up alot, I know that you are breast feeding. Are you only breast feeding, if you don't mind my asking.

Charlene said...

Wow Allison you have ALOT on your plate!! Avery sounds like how my daughter was as a baby, I seriously never got more then 2 1/2 to 3 hours sleep in in a row, she wasn't like my girlfriends babies who could just be put in a bouncy seat while they did housework etc., I had to carry that child everywhere or she screamed. She still isn't a great sleeper and always has a ton of energy...wish I did lol.
You sound like you are doing a super job!! I too am separated from my husband and doing everything on my own, its hard and I only have 2 kids, one of which is 18 (doesn't need much help from Mom anymore lol), but my daughter who is 5 exhausts me to no end...I can only imagine how depleted your energy level must be by the end of a day. Hope that little girl of yours starts sleeping a bit better so Mommy can catch up on her sleep!
Hugs,
Charlene

Tracy.H said...

Vent away... ;0)

Lindy Stamper said...

I really have nothing to offer but a hug. *hugs* Deep breathe, it'll get better.... soon.

Joan B said...

Gee there is too much going on here for even the insane to cope! I'm sorry!! Can you get some paid help??

SueB said...

made it to the end ... and thought to myself, "ah ... the good ol' days." mine are 23 and 21 now. the problems don't go away - they just change into more mature issues ... but keep the faith, kid! this too shall pass!

and I'm just a wee bit jealous that you got that Indian Summer DP - isn't that GORGEOUS stuff?! I must order some! I think I hear it calling me now ...

mudmaven said...

Oh my - poor mommy! You did make me laugh with the T story though! Hope you (and Ave) get some sleep tonight so tomorrow will be better. hugz ~chris

Yosha said...

Awe man that is such a bad mommy day! Hope today ais better then it's a hop and a skip to the weekend. I say pawn the kids off to someone (hey not a stranger!) and take a day breather.

If it wasn't so far or even if your kids knew me, I'd say put at least Tn on a flight over, I am sure we'd manage to have a good couple of days! He and I have the same problem of waiting too long to hit the washroom...luckily no leaky issues...yet!

Kathynruss said...

I have absolutely no frame of reference, never having (or wanted to have) kids, but I sure can sympathise with the no sleep thing. Soo glad nobody hurt in cart tipping event. ((((()))))

Ida P. Krause said...

Oh my goodness life is challenging sometimes and you've certainly had your share. Just remember someday you'll look back on all this with "fond" memories. I especially chuckled at the "she's mocking" me statement.
Big Hugs from me to you.

Elena said...

Oh, it had been not an easy day for you, Allison... Sorry that you and Avery don't have so much sleep.
Hope it well get better and you will have some rest too!
Sending you my Gig Hugs!

pescbrico said...

Here is a HUG...

Zarna said...

Ugh! rough day! I can sympathise with the 70 minute scream-a-thon, we had an episode like that about 12 months ago and it was torture

Sending hugs :)

Rose Ann said...

Oh gosh...I hope things are going better, girl!! Hugs!!

Mel M. M. McCarthy said...

WOah! I think I'll just have ONE kid, LOL. Those WJ sure are lucky you put up with their antics! ;o) Just think of the embarrassing stories you'll be able to tell later, hehehe. Hope Ave outgrows the torturing you. P.s. no need to reply to any of these comments (aka me stalking you.) Save your energy! ;o)

Juanita said...

is there som sort of kid email list they are all on? My son tells me he is too tired to walk ALL THE TIME. Walk in a store, his legs are so tired!