Positive note of the day: So it would normally be at this point that I would congratulate myself for volunteering at school tonight and spending some time with C. Unfortunately, here's what happened... I ended up volunteering for 90 minutes. For the last 30 minutes, I got tons of dirty looks from my girl and plaintive "are we going yet?" whines...ugh. Anyway, I was telling a story about her (which she hates) to two other moms (and it was a cute story to boot!). So what does she do? She comes over and shoves me so that I lose my footing. Embarrassed but possessed enough to take her to the corner and give her $hit, I told her that we would finish out our time and that she would be going to bed when we got home.As I cleaned the classroom, she was weeping to herself while I tried to be relatively nonchalant about the fact that she had misbehaved (which really just mortified me). Since I kept looking over at her (yes, I was slinging dirty looks her way), she got more upset and then started coughing. And, well you can guess what happened next...she yakked all over herself and the classroom floor. Ticked off at her (since she sometimes does this when she cannot control her emotions), I am sure I came off as callous as I tried to clean up the mess. One of the other moms called the custodian to come clean it up so I could take her to the bathroom and hose her down. Daunted by the sheer volume (yuck!), I stripped her down and made her go home in her long jacket and silvery shoes. By the time we were outside, she was all lightness and sunshine whereas I was bitching to Brad about how my evening deteriorated. She went to bed when we got home.
This is one of those days where I wonder what I am doing wrong...maybe I let too much slide and this is payback. Dunno. I did tell Charlotte while she laid in bed that her actions reflected poorly on me. I know that I secretly judge people in my own head when I see their kids misbehave and here I was dealing with the same thing. Of course, in recent years, I have chosen to commiserated with the other moms but still, I think I was silently congratulating myself on a job well done (at least out in public...at home, it's a whole other story!). I guess this was my comeuppance!





















9 comments:
First off,Love your card!Those papers are gorgeous and love the sketch!
As for C,I don't think you're doing anything wrong,you are such a
wonderful mom. Myself,I never had kids but things they do for attention and or when they don't get their way is unbelievable now a days! She'll grow out of it maybe,like I said,no kids so can't give you any tips.
Have a wonderful day Allison!
Gorgeous card. Even though I understand ALL of your feelings and thoughts through last night's events, I wouldn't think on it too much more. You are a WONDERFUL Mom, C is a delightful child, and we all have our moments of whining and wanting a situation to change. Doesn't mean anyone is "wrong". Do you think C may have wanted to help you? Let it go.
I really love how your papers fell the way they did on this card!! I really love the musical note papers and making things with them...so versatile! :) HUGS
Lovely card! As always, you have the best papers.
Ahhhh, kids. We all have our days, don't we?! Let it go, you're a great Mom and C is a great girl....just had an off day.
Beautiful card! Very elegant looking.
I love reading about your parenting as I feel like it is me writing sometimes! I gave myself a time out last night, and left the hubby with the 3 little ones and did some Christmas shopping for someone other than my family. Felt good! Just wanted to let you know I know exactly how you feel on about 99% of the posts you write LOL! Chat me up if you ever need to talk=vent.
Another great card. I love the musical score paper and that wonderful sentiment stamp.
Oh my I feel for you with C and her negative behavior. Goodness she does get carried away. Well it sounds like you handled it well enough and believe me it's not easy being a parent in times like that. Hang in there.
What a pretty card Allison. Love the papers and the punch or whatever you used to have those tiny holes on the card. :o)
I have to say, my son is strong willed, but luckily I haven't had to deal with a tantrum like that... yet...
catching up on my blurfing again! Sounds like a scene I would have with Julia (minus the yakking thank goodness cuz then i would yak too!) they aren't that often, but just enough to make me realize I'm not so perfect as I like to think!! ;-)
Just wanted to stop by and wish you all a Happy New Year! Hope it's a great one for you all. Jaqui x
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